Author: omegafhclub

Help Your Player Define Success On and Off the Field

I have long struggled with defining sports success. When I worked at American Express, I believed in my heart of hearts that becoming a VP would mean I had achieved the goals I had set for myself. I worked hard for that promotion, and when it came, I was proud. But the congratulations were short-lived. […]

Tips To Help Your Student-Athlete Stay Organized

Being a student-athlete is not easy. As coaches, we see how much our players juggle: schoolwork, practices, games, responsibilities at home, and sometimes a part-time job. Add Friday night football games, homecoming, religious commitments, and time with friends, and the calendar fills up quickly. These experiences are a great part of growing up, but even […]

Wait 24 Hours Before Talking to Your Player’s Coach

Youth sports can be emotional, whether it is hockey or something else. They are emotional for players, parents, and coaches. Often, it’s less emotional for players. Whether it is a tough loss, limited playing time, or a decision you don’t agree with, your first reaction may be to approach the coach immediately. Don’t. Take a […]

The Car Ride Home—with Ice Cream Involved

Your athlete gets in the car, and immediately, you want to know how practice went. The answer is usually one word: “Fine” or “Good.” After grinding through practice, the last thing they want to do is talk about the past two hours. But you are curious. You want to better understand how practice went, what […]

Tips on Helping Your Player Advocate

A player recently approached me and asked if we could talk about moving up to a higher-level team. I was impressed that they had the courage to initiate a conversation about something important to them. They were respectful, thoughtful, and willing to listen. That player advocated for themselves. They identified something they wanted and had […]